Yet another beautiful day..... Got to work nice and early, I was a bit disappointed about things that happend last night. I tried to forget about the fight and just concentrate on work but for some reason Mr Weirdo's talk was just ringing in my ears.
I felt as though I was going to loose my Identity...my original self and my Individuality. For the first time ever I felt suffocated in the relationship that I shared with weirdo. I considered him as part of my life and as part of me.....I thought I could share anything and everything with him. Goji berry ( My close friend at work) was right ......He did caution me in the begining not to be soo honest and open in life. I realised it is imporant to have an inbuilt filter in the heart before sharing your life stories. Honesty does not take you anywhere, It only leads to confusion and fights with your loved one. Sometimes its better to keep your mouth shut without disclosing too much about yourself and your experiences.
Sharing is caring doesn't really work in this era....especially with your boy friend or girl friend. I realised people who fake in their relationship will have a happy long and successful relationship when compare to people who wants to be transperant and honest with their loved one.
At work we had a farewell lunch for my ex boss... She is going to be flying over the ditch (Australia) to start her new role within the same company. It was hard to say goodbye to her. I got a bit emotional but never really wanted to have any tears in my eyes.
We often forget the fact that no matter what happens... life is going to move on. We human beings are crazy, we get attached to people, places and things around us....and we start missing everything that have left behind. Our thoughts have a tedency to stick to things that we loved. In the end we feel hurt.
Life is like a train ride.......people get on and get off the train at their liesure. Everyone's journey will be filled with hopes, dreams, challenges, set backs and good byes. We must strive to make the best of it and live life to the fullest to creat beautiful memories.
Memories that we we can cherish for the rest of our lives.......
