Importance of an Inbuilt filter.

Yet another beautiful day..... Got to work nice and early, I was a bit disappointed about things that happend last night. I tried to forget about the fight and just concentrate on work but for some reason Mr Weirdo's talk was just ringing in my ears.

I felt as though I was going to loose my Identity...my original self and my Individuality. For the first time ever I felt suffocated in the relationship that I shared with weirdo. I considered him as part of my life and as part of me.....I thought I could share anything and everything with him. Goji berry ( My close friend at work) was right ......He did caution me in the begining not to be soo honest and open in life. I realised it is imporant to have an inbuilt filter in the heart before sharing your life stories. Honesty does not take you anywhere, It only leads to confusion and fights with your loved one. Sometimes its better to keep your mouth shut without disclosing too much about yourself and your experiences.

Sharing is caring doesn't really work in this era....especially with your boy friend or girl friend. I realised people who fake in their relationship will have a happy long and successful relationship when compare to people who wants to be transperant and honest with their loved one.

At work we had a farewell lunch for my ex boss... She is going to be flying over the ditch (Australia) to start her new role within the same company. It was hard to say goodbye to her. I got a bit emotional but never really wanted to have any tears in my eyes.

We often forget the fact that no matter what happens... life is going to move on. We human beings are crazy, we get attached to people, places and things around us....and we start missing everything that have left behind. Our thoughts have a tedency to stick to things that we loved. In the end we feel hurt.

Life is like a train ride.......people get on and get off the train at their liesure. Everyone's journey will be filled with hopes, dreams, challenges, set backs and good byes. We must strive to make the best of it and live life to the fullest to creat beautiful memories.

Memories that we we can cherish for the rest of our lives....... 

Witty Questions - 23/01/2013

Another beautiful day .... guess what ??? I spread the fever of asking witty questions at office. My questions were like this " How do you put an elephant in the fridge in three steps" and the answer is open the fridge ...put the elephant and close the fridge. How do you drop an egg on the concrete floor without breaking it ? and the answer is  "concrete floor is hard.". So everybody got into a mood of asking these witty questions. Asusual my one and only goji berry did his homework and came up with his own quesion ....the question goes like this : If you are locked in a room with only a calender and a spring bed" what will you eat and drink...and the answer is "Dates and Spring water". Couldn't stop laughing after i heard the answers from him. This was my morning laugh.

Afternoon show...was feeling hungry so i went to heat my food, my lunch box slipped from my hand and had to clean up all the mess and i had to just eat what ever was left in the box , then my goji berry (GB - My close friend at work)disappears for a while and comes back with a big bag of food,.....He then asked me to check the bags in the kitchen  and for my surprise he had bought 3 different cuisine ..Indian rice...dal and my fav sandwich...my fav burger ( Falafel Magen Speciality Burger) not to forget Rasmalai (Indian Dessert).Wow I was alomst in tears. I cherished that moment and would carry that memory to my grave. I couldn't stop smiling thinking about all the love and care he has showered on me so far.

Evening I got home and was really excited to talk to Mr Weirdo, Called him on skype and we planned to have dinner together, then we talked about our day and out of blue....I started talking about my Vegas trip and the Zumanity show with him, All of a sudden his mood changed and he went quiet....I didn't have my dinner....all the laugh i had since morning got off set against my evening tears.

I do not know if he is doubting me or he is thinking that I have a habitual nature to watch nude shows.....I was hurt but we didn't fight, he suggested that we need to take a break for three days to clean the air, I agreed. before going to bed I sent him an email of a hindi short film called "Maruni" means marron. Here is the link

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IksMyhzF8AM.

God is a good planner, he has made everyone's life so versatile, but I feel that he has worked overtime to design my life ...My days are filled with laughter...cry ,...anger and fights. I'm glad to goji berry and to god for making my life so bright and beautiful. Some people are blessed to have an angel in their real life and i think I'm one among them.

Life is not about reaching the destination its about enjying the journey.....so true.